The 15 best BDSM quotes in 2023

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When watching a movie or browsing Social Media, we all enjoy a good quote or saying that makes us feel emotional or reflect our feelings.

On the other hand, a kinky BDSM quote makes us remember last night we spent being kinky with each other…or want to do it all over again

In this post, you will find the best BDSM quotes for kinksters, Doms, subs, vanillas, and anyone else looking for some naughty inspiration.

From BDSM quotes for Instagram, funny kinky quotes, and inspirational BDSM phrases, to anything else worth sharing and remembering!

Enjoy!

  1. A dominant needs to feel needed. A submissive needs to feel wanted. Without each other, they are nothing. Together they are complete.
  2. Submission is not a punishment. Submission is a privilege.

It is important to remember that BDSM is always consensual between partners, no matter what you do.

Unlike movies such as 50 Shades of Grey want you to believe, BDSM is not just practiced by abusive psychopaths or weak women but by millions of normals people around the world who love to introduce some kink into their relationships.

  1. I Want to touch the parts of you no one else has touched. I want to own the piece of you that has yet to be discovered. So stop resisting. Let go. Let it happen. Surrender.
    – David Hollan, Requested Surrender
  2. Some days, you just need a hug…on the butt. With a paddle.

SM or sadism & masochism means enjoying feeling or inflicting pain. This can be done with a variety of tools and items such as paddles, floggers, belts, whips, and anything else you can find in your house.

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Whips are fun…very fun!
  1. When life gets to be more than you can stand… Kneel.
    – Jeanna Robinson
  2. This is not a lifestyle about sex, it is a lifestyle of philosophy and fulfillment, sacrifice and challenge, beyond the body.
    – Chaz Man Lovedo

BDSM is not just sex, but encompasses so much more.

If the thought of dominance and submission, sweet pain and kinky lifestyle intrigues you, check out our guide to BDSM!

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BDSM is kinky…and fun.
  1. A little pain in bed always makes things a little more interesting.
    – Kristi Naval
  2. If you’re kinky and you know it clap your… Oh, they´re tied? Nevermind.
    – Jon-Micheal Scott

Bondage, the act of tying up or restraining someone physically, is a fun part of BDSM and something you should definitely explore.

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Bondage is an exciting part of BDSM.

Read our beginner’s guide to bondage to find out what it is and how to introduce it to your partner.

  1. It’s hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That’s part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can’t refuse anything and can’t even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel.
    – Cherise Sinclair, Dark Citadel
  2. You are the evil scientist of your desires.
    – Ignacio Rivera
  3. Everyone needs someone to handle their darker sides
  4. There are a hundred ways to kneel and kiss the ground.
    – Rumi
  5. He said he likes the sound of me calling him Daddy…I think it sounds even better when I say it through a mouthful while on my knees…

Daddy-Little play is very popular in the BDSM world, especially in North America.

  1. Don’t torture yourself…that’s my job.
  2. Can I use you in my fantasies? I promise to be dirty.

Wrap-Up

And that’s it. These are the 15 best BDSM quotes in 2023. Go and share them, and this list, with your kinky friends and on social media.

What’s your favorite quote of the bunch?

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